We must create an ethos whereby sufferers of violence know that people care for them and their children. In the event of sufferers revealing the tragedy of domestic abuse, it is important that a caring and professional system is in place to assist them. It is important that GPs and the staff of accident and emergency departments are skilled in recognising what needs to be done to deal with domestic violence. Medical personnel should keep accurate and comprehensive records so that trends and patterns of violence can be recognised.