Dáil debates

Thursday, 12 March 2015

Children and Family Relationships Bill 2015: Report Stage (Resumed) and Final Stage

 

2:30 pm

Photo of Róisín ShortallRóisín Shortall (Dublin North West, Independent) | Oireachtas source

Deputy Coppinger raised that in the context of a discussion of setting down the rights of non-martial fathers, and that was unfair. It adds to the societal view in this country. It is a negative message that has been sent out about unmarried fathers.

We are talking about rights. It is not only about the rights of mothers or fathers but also the right of children to know both their parents because many studies show that fathers and mothers are important to children. That is why it is important that we, as a Legislature, uphold the rights of children to know and be cared for to the greatest extent possible by both their parents. That is why some of us made the point that it is wrong to discriminate against fathers simply because they are not married to the mother of their child. I still hold that view. It is regrettable that the Minister has not taken the opportunity to deal with that issue within the legislation.

I do not have a difficulty with the proposal that this be revisited in 12 months to allow consultation with organisations concerned with the welfare of children, women and men. We should look at that in the context of all the rights of mothers, fathers and children and all the responsibilities involved.

As others stated, there is a problem in this county in that the legislation on social welfare, tax, housing and other social policies sends out a negative message to unmarried fathers and it is important we turn that around. We must say to fathers, no matter how young and no matter what their circumstances, even where they may not be in a position to provide the care and attention their children need, that it is important they play as full a part as possible in their children's lives because they need them. It is also important that we expect a great deal of them because by doing that, we are likely to receive a great deal in return.

We need to change that negative attitude. We need to talk about the importance of fathers because we know that they have a critical role to play in their children's lives, and fathers should be encouraged to play that role to the greatest extent possible.

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